suddenly feeling this burst of positive energy. hakuna matata, folks. peace out.
last monday I was feeling a lil down about my…um, personality? face? love life? significance? then the Lord dropped these words from D Miller:
“I don’t know why it is exactly, but the people with the healthiest self esteem are also the greatest at intimacy. I’m not talking about arrogant people. I’m talking about people who know they are both good and bad and believe at the deepest level that they are really good for people.”
Good for people. I am good for people. and so are you (duh). but how easy it is to forget this. you as a person. you’re pleasant and cool and you’re not at all a burden to talk to. so stahp it. stop avoiding ppl because you think you’re wasting their time. you stupid people-pleaser. stop it. people-pleasing isn’t about being kind, it’s about being scared of people. sorry to be so harsh, but you sir, you needed to hear it. Or mam. I still can’t figure out who reads this blog. but I know ppl do read it. ok i’m guessing it’s kenzie and tyler but really who knows. a girl can dream. I’m hoping Donald Miller falls upon my blog someday and offers me free copies of all of his books. ~that~ would be a dream.
so yes, Donald Miller, I’m talking to you: stop being a people-pleaser, if you are, and plz message me at the link in my portfolio website and I can send you my mailing address. thanks so much.
ok one more thing real quick bc it’s irking me rn:
it turns out personality trumps skinny-ness. what the heck. who knew. I freaking didn’t know this. UGH.